When we were getting up this morning, an owl was calling. In many cultures the call of an owl was a sign of death, so it was the perfect symbol for today's celebration: All Souls. Jonathan, Charlotte, and Miriam made it to early Mass with their Daddy. Flora and Veronika slept late, and Flora has had a cough for a while. So I stayed home with them. After Mass, Father D. went to one of the local cemeteries and blessed the graves. Jonathan always helps him, he is an altar boy, but by some twist of fate, the handle of the holy water bucket fell off and the holy water spilled on the ground. Luckily, Father D. still had some holy water in his holy water sprinkler. Jonathan was very embarrassed, although it was not his fault.
At home we continued to mark the special day by singing "Im Himmelreich ein Haus steht," an old German song with a tune by Jens Weidtke found in Lieder zu den Jahresfesten. The picture book The Spirit of Tio Fernando: A Day of the Dead Story, which shows how the Mexicans celebrate All Souls, followed. To remember some of our friends and family members, who have died, we started a poster several years ago. Every November we get it out and add names and/or pictures. The idea for such a poster comes from A Year with God. We hung it over our nature table.
Poster of the deceased (I covered personal information for this picture.)/Poster unserer Verstobenen (Ich habe private Informationen vor dem Foto abgedeckt.)
On the gravestones you can write the names of the deceased./Auf die Grabsteine kann man die Namen der Verstorbenen schreiben.
This year we also added something else. The children are going to pray the St. Gertrude Prayer for the Poor Souls in Purgatory. Each child (except Flora) received a prayer card
and all the older ones a chart to keep track of the prayers said.
Veronika will use these stickers instead. They all really liked the idea and have already said a large number of prayers. Tomorrow we'll participate in a field trip with other homeschoolers.
Als wir heute morgen aufwachten, hat eine Eule gerufen. Da in vielen Kulturen die Eule ein Bringer des Todes war, hatten wir gerade die richtige Einstimmung für Allerseelen. Jonathan, Charlotte und Miriam sind mit ihrem Vater zur Allerseelenmesse gegangen. Flora hat schon seit einigen Tagen einen Husten und Veronika hat lange geschlafen, so daß ich mit ihnen zu Hause geblieben bin. Nach der Messe gab es eine Segnung der Gräber auf einem katholischen Friedhof im Nachbarort. Jonathan hilft Pfarrer D. immer als Meßdiener und so natürlich auch dort. Leider ist ihm ein Mißgeschick passiert. Der Griff des Weihwassergefäßes war alt und löste sich, so daß das Weihwasser auf der Erde verschüttet wurde. Glücklicherweise hatte Pfarrer D. noch etwas Weihwasser in seinem Sprengel. Jonathan war das natürlich sehr peinlich, auch wenn es gar nicht sein Fehler war!
Zu Hause haben wir diesen besonderen Tag mit dem Lied "Im Himmelreich ein Haus steht", welches aus dem Spervogel stammt, nach einer Melodie von Jens Weidtke aus Lieder zu den Jahresfesten weiter gefeiert. Darauf folgte das Bilderbuch The Spirit of Tio Fernando: A Day of the Dead Story, in dem beschrieben wird, wie man Allerseelen in Mexiko feiert. Um im Monat November an viele Verwandte und Freunde zu denken, die gestorben sind, haben wir vor einigen Jahren ein Poster mit Fotos und Sterbeanzeigen angefangen. Die Idee dazu stammt aus A Year with God. Wir haben es über unseren Jahreszeitentisch gehängt. Dieses Jahr haben wir aber noch etwas Neues hinzugefügt: Ich habe das Gebet der heiligen Gertrud von Helfta für jedes Kind (außer Flora) ausgedruckt und dazu eine Tabelle, auf der man vermerken kann, wie oft man es gebetet hat. Veronika hat statt der Tabelle Aufkleber bekommen. Mit diesem Gebet gedenkt man der armen Seelen auf eine besondere Weise. Die Kinder fanden die Idee ganz toll und wetteifern miteinander, wer am meisten Gebete (natürlich mit Andacht) sagen kann. Morgen gibt es einen Ausflug mit anderen Heimschülern.
Lifting up prayers for your loved ones who have gone before you.
ReplyDeleteHi Eva,
ReplyDeleteWe must be on the same track! I've gathered pictures of deceased family members and am really impressed with your gravestone imagery and had quite forgotten the St Gertrude prayer! Would like to incorporate some of your ideas if I may and promise to link back to you for the credit!!
Sorry to read about Jonathan's misfortune with the Holy Water, he's at that age where things like that, can be a big deal. All credit to him for being faithful in helping Father in the first place.
Hope you have lovely time with the other HE families today.
Blessings
San xx
Dave reckons our pumpkins must be different, the walls were a good inch thick after scooping out the seeds!
ReplyDeleteThe pumpkin pie was delicious!
Hope you had a good day
San x
Thanks for the prayers, Alexandra!
ReplyDeleteHello San, of course, go ahead and use some of my ideas -- I'm glad if they are helpful. To post pictures of your deceased family members is also a good exercise in family history and sometimes general history. My children keep looking at the pictures.
ReplyDeleteHas Benedict had his First Holy Communion yet? I'm asking because I was wondering if he is an altar server. Here in the U.S. most children have their First Holy Communion at the age of 7, in Germany you are normally 9.
Benedict isn't ready yet to make his first holy communion. He's only just seven and quite young in some ways, so we'll hold off for a year or so. His older sisters made there first communion at the age of seven, but girls are different aren't they?!!
ReplyDeleteI think the church in Germany has the right idea!
Glad your field trip went well, you were blessed with good weather, here we have typical grey skies and rain!
Blessings San xx